Hello world, are you looking for an amazing man that is kind, respectful, sincere and driven? Then stop searching Tender.com, Pof.com, Match.com and keep reading on.
My name is Jason Lake, and if you've stumbled upon this website, chances are you're on a quest to find that one special person you're meant to be with. Like many others, I've tried various dating sites such as Tinder, Plenty of Fish (POF), Match, and several dating apps..
Despite my dating experiences, I haven't yet met that extraordinary someone. Every time I logged into POF or other platforms like OkCupid, eHarmony, Bumble, or Zoosk, I couldn't help but wonder how much longer I'd have to continue using these sites. I explored everything from free dating sites to paid ones, but it always felt like finding my perfect match was an elusive goal.
This led me to contemplate the odds of meeting my soulmate among the limited number of people using free dating sites in my local area of Medford, Oregon. With over 7 billion people in the world and the belief that there's someone for everyone, it struck me that my chances might be slim. Rather than spending countless hours searching for that proverbial needle in a haystack, I decided to create a website that would increase my likelihood of finding that one in 7 billion.
My Perfect Match
If you ever have the chance to meet my friends and family they will tell you that I tend to find the good in everyone. As I get older I realized that we are all weird, different and unique in our own way. Why is this important, for the simple fact that the perfect person does not exist, loves about acceptance. Accepting that nobody is perfect, whether that be their physical form, social background or mistakes they may have made in their past.
With all of that said we also cannot lie to ourselves, we have to accept that there are certain attributes that we are drawn to. My ideal person would love life as much as I do and strive to live it to its fullest. She would be kind to strangers while also standing up for what she believes in. She would love animals as much as I do. She would see the glass half empty and ready to fill it to the brim with traveling, dogs, family and love.
The Elephant In The Room
Are you asking yourself yet, "why is this guy single"?. I am very confident in myself and what I have to offer somebody, however if you have not noticed yet I am in a wheelchair. Yes I know it is a shock to me also, sometimes I forget that I can't walk or sing in the morning when I get out of bed and I fall flat on my face, I amtotally joking of course. Besides my humor and my outgoing personality, I work multiple jobs, own my own home and volunteer working with children. I am most famously known for competing in a German dog sport called schutzhund. I am one of only a handful of people in the world that compete at my level in this fascinating dog sport.
I was born with a rare disability called arthrogryposis multiplex congenita (AMC). Now if the first thought that comes to your mind is "can he have sex?" Let me just clear the room right away and say, hell yes. There are different forms of AMC, my form affects my joints and muscles but not my brain or my big mouth :). It takes a very special person to accept my world and understand that it's not the typical relationship but with that said I feel I bring more to the table and most able-bodied men. I'm extremely open about my disability so please do not hesitate to ask any questions if you think you might be interested in getting to know me.
Dog Training
As I mentioned previously dogs are a huge part of my life. Besides owning a professional dog training school I also have 2 German Shepherds that I compete with.
Photography
Although I am not a professional photographer by any means, photography is always help me capture moments in time and showcase the beauty around me.
Traveling
Traveling is somewhat difficult when your person in my situation however it would be my dream to meet somebody that loves traveling as much as I do.
Music
I have always had a deep passion for music. Whether I'm home relaxing or in my vehicle cruising down the road I always have the music on and typically singing at the top of my lungs.